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Title: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: duccarlos on April 18, 2013, 11:05:21 AM
Maybe I should not have laughed at her. I was there back in the TOB days, well, not a full ban, just NMC. I just saw her reaction and so many others came to mind. She truly has no idea why she was banned, rubbed the admin the wrong way or broke some obscure rule. Granted, she didn't get any warning, but I still found it funny.

Why do we get so damn attached to places like this?
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Slide Panda on April 18, 2013, 11:38:45 AM
Though it's at a detached level - it is a social interaction. Wouldn't you be pissed if some stranger told you you couldn't hang out with that buddy you grab beers with every 6 months, just 'because'?

Kind like that I figure
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: geoffduc on April 18, 2013, 12:19:58 PM
Quote from: duccarlos on April 18, 2013, 11:05:21 AM


Why do we get so damn attached to places like this?

Because Carlos you get to meet and talk with some really great guys... [thumbsup]

Admittedly you have to wade through some crap on the way... [bang]

Don't ban me Nate you know I'm just an Olde Fart Limey... ;) ;)

Geoff... [coffee]
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: ducpainter on April 18, 2013, 01:32:05 PM
Quote from: geoffduc on April 18, 2013, 12:19:58 PM
Because Carlos you get to meet and talk with some really great guys... [thumbsup]

Admittedly you have to wade through some crap on the way... [bang]

Don't ban me Nate you know I'm just an Olde Fart Limey... ;) ;)

Geoff... [coffee]
You didn't lie. ;D

I can be an asshole without much provocation. I know that.

I can't, and am not willing, to change who or what I am.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Grampa on April 18, 2013, 02:06:20 PM
ban me and I'll send you a letter filled with rice.








;)
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: ducpainter on April 18, 2013, 02:07:39 PM
Quote from: bobspapa on April 18, 2013, 02:06:20 PM
ban me and I'll send you a letter filled with rice.








;)
You're too willing...

takes all the fun out of it.  :-*
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: pitbull on April 19, 2013, 09:15:21 PM
I participate on a performance and nutrition forum.

It's run by one individual and populated by a great many very intelligent folks.

He has a policy not to ban anyone, with exception of continuous harrasment type behaviour. You can say whatever you want and as rudely as you wish. However, you cannot edit anything you type after a 10 minute period and you cannot delete posts. If you say something really stupid, it stays up forever. It works far better at encouraging good behaviour than any policed forum I've ever seen.

The result has been a forum where people really think through what they say and how they say it, when it comes to forum debates.  Members on that forum become very good at sticking to facts, supporting their arguements logically and with research when neccessary and stearing clear of logical fallacies.


Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: ducatiz on April 19, 2013, 10:09:32 PM
I like the permanent post paradigm.  It works.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: duccarlos on April 20, 2013, 05:14:49 PM
I rarely modify a post, unless asked to do so or because I find a spelling mistake.

I generally don't regret anything I post.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: lethe on April 20, 2013, 05:40:49 PM
I only fix spelling mistakes I catch but not content. As for content, there are just an awful lot of posts I just never hit the post button on after reading through a few times.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Monsterlover on April 20, 2013, 08:33:42 PM
Quote from: duccarlos on April 20, 2013, 05:14:49 PM
I rarely modify a post, unless asked to do so or because I find a spelling mistake.

I generally don't regret anything I post.

+1

Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Charlief on April 21, 2013, 10:47:15 AM
I erased a four paragraph reply to the Boston marathon thread. Bashing a few idiots who posted. I then reread it and realized its not their fault they are idiots and deleted my reply.

Knowing all to well I would probably get banned cause some of the posters are in the " in " crowd.

Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: ducpainter on April 21, 2013, 10:58:13 AM
Quote from: Charlief on April 21, 2013, 10:47:15 AM
I erased a four paragraph reply to the Boston marathon thread. Bashing a few idiots who posted. I then reread it and realized its not their fault they are idiots and deleted my reply.

Knowing all to well I would probably get banned cause some of the posters are in the " in " crowd.


You honestly believe that?
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Charlief on April 21, 2013, 11:14:11 AM
Quote from: ducpainter on April 21, 2013, 10:58:13 AM
You honestly believe that?

I know you're a fair man.

Pm coming
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: lethe on April 21, 2013, 11:55:53 AM
Quote from: Charlief on April 21, 2013, 10:47:15 AM
I erased a four paragraph reply to the Boston marathon thread. Bashing a few idiots who posted. I then reread it and realized its not their fault they are idiots and deleted my reply.

Knowing all to well I would probably get banned cause some of the posters are in the " in " crowd.


Is there a listing of the "in" crowd? I wish to know if I'm on it and my ranking to see if I have power over others and can force them to bend to my whims.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Grampa on April 21, 2013, 01:00:14 PM
im a d list poster
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: herm on April 21, 2013, 03:33:08 PM
Quote from: lethe on April 21, 2013, 11:55:53 AM
Is there a listing of the "in" crowd? I wish to know if I'm on it and my ranking to see if I have power over others and can force them to bend to my whims.

The list is here.. http://www.ducatimonsterforum.org/index.php?action=mlist;sort=posts;desc;start=0 (http://www.ducatimonsterforum.org/index.php?action=mlist;sort=posts;desc;start=0)

it's about 100 pages long 8)
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: herm on April 21, 2013, 03:33:42 PM
Quote from: herm on April 21, 2013, 03:33:08 PM
The list is here.. http://www.ducatimonsterforum.org/index.php?action=mlist;sort=posts;desc;start=0 (http://www.ducatimonsterforum.org/index.php?action=mlist;sort=posts;desc;start=0)

it's about 100 pages long 8)

and you're not on it.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: lethe on April 21, 2013, 03:36:10 PM
Quote from: herm on April 21, 2013, 03:33:42 PM
and you're not on it.
there's some mighty funny names amongst those who just lurk  [laugh]
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: hbliam on April 21, 2013, 04:08:45 PM
Quote from: ducpainter on April 21, 2013, 10:58:13 AM
You honestly believe that?

Many of us do.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: ducpainter on April 21, 2013, 05:37:13 PM
Quote from: hbliam on April 21, 2013, 04:08:45 PM
Many of us do.
I'd  appreciate it if you sent me a copy of it so I can make sure I'm favoring the right people...

and treating everyone else accordingly. [thumbsup]
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: hbliam on April 21, 2013, 09:25:45 PM
Quote from: ducpainter on April 21, 2013, 05:37:13 PM
I'd  appreciate it if you sent me a copy of it so I can make sure I'm favoring the right people...

and treating everyone else accordingly. [thumbsup]

You have the only copy!
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: kopfjäger on April 21, 2013, 09:34:29 PM
Quote from: hbliam on April 21, 2013, 04:08:45 PM
Many of us do.

[roll]
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: hbliam on April 21, 2013, 11:18:22 PM
 
Quote from: kopfjäger on April 21, 2013, 09:34:29 PM
[roll]

[roll]
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Randimus Maximus on April 21, 2013, 11:26:59 PM
I know that it has been a long winter for a lot of folks...  [bang] [bang] [bang]












...is riding season starting soon?

[Dolph]


Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: kopfjäger on April 21, 2013, 11:28:05 PM
Quote from: Randimus Maximus on April 21, 2013, 11:26:59 PM
I know that it has been a long winter for a lot of folks...  [bang] [bang] [bang]












...is riding season starting soon?

[Dolph]




:D [drink]
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: hbliam on April 21, 2013, 11:42:50 PM
Quote from: Randimus Maximus on April 21, 2013, 11:26:59 PM
I know that it has been a long winter for a lot of folks...  [bang] [bang] [bang]


...is riding season starting soon?

[Dolph]




What's winter?
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: DRKWNG on April 21, 2013, 11:44:35 PM
Quote from: kopfjäger on April 21, 2013, 09:34:29 PM
[roll]
Quote from: hbliam on April 21, 2013, 11:18:22 PM
[roll]
[roll]





























;D
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: kopfjäger on April 21, 2013, 11:48:05 PM
Quote from: DRKWNG on April 21, 2013, 11:44:35 PM

 [roll]





























;D

[drink]
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: ducatiz on April 22, 2013, 09:35:35 AM
Quote from: DRKWNG on April 21, 2013, 11:44:35 PM

 [roll]

;D

(http://cache2.hyves-static.net/images/smilies/default/smiley_ahh.gif)
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Statler on April 23, 2013, 12:20:46 PM
I have heard one can make the list by purchasing tequila for certain people.   Might be just a rumor. 
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: MendoDave on April 23, 2013, 08:08:34 PM
Even if you're on the Sh*t list?
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Randimus Maximus on April 23, 2013, 08:12:14 PM
Quote from: Mendo Dave on April 23, 2013, 08:08:34 PM
Even if you're on the Sh*t list?

Don't send shitty tequila.

[beer]
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: MendoDave on April 23, 2013, 08:14:54 PM
Quote from: Randimus Maximus on April 23, 2013, 08:12:14 PM
Don't send shitty tequila.

[beer]

You should have wagered me in the 2013 Wagers. You would be winning right now.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: lethe on April 23, 2013, 08:15:03 PM
send a nice bottle of Thunderbird
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: MendoDave on April 23, 2013, 08:16:27 PM
Quote from: lethe on April 23, 2013, 08:15:03 PM
send a nice bottle of Thunderbird

Ill send you Ginger ale and Ripple (Champipple)
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: ducatiz on April 23, 2013, 08:24:14 PM
Quote from: lethe on April 23, 2013, 08:15:03 PM
send a nice bottle of Thunderbird

Pass the word?
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: LowThudd on April 23, 2013, 11:46:18 PM
Not Night Train?
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: duccarlos on April 24, 2013, 06:39:51 AM
I'm gone for a few days...

Anyway, my wife got over it relatively quick after she sent her "getting it off my chest" email. I thought she was gonna send the guy a pic of her boobs, but it turned out to be about her "feelings" and shit.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Privateer on April 24, 2013, 08:52:35 PM
having previously been and admin on a couple forums, sometimes someone can get banned by mistake when an IP based ban is used.  If an admin bans an IP or subnet, it can sometimes pull in people who did nothing wrong.

invariably someone who is banned by mistake becomes exceedingly irate and no amount of explaining and apologizing soothes their ruffled feathers.


not sure if that's what happened, just throwing it out as a possible explanation.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Grampa on April 24, 2013, 11:18:33 PM
Carlos..... your wife is banned from my forum.

She can however, redeem herself by sending me booby pics.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: herm on April 25, 2013, 08:03:20 AM
Quote from: lethe on April 23, 2013, 08:15:03 PM
send a nice bottle of Thunderbird

Mad Dog 20/20!
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: MendoDave on April 25, 2013, 10:08:49 AM
Quote from: herm on April 25, 2013, 08:03:20 AM
Mad Dog 20/20!

That is exactly what I was thinking.
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: herm on April 25, 2013, 07:34:56 PM
or Boone's Farm...
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: duccarlos on April 25, 2013, 07:40:18 PM
Quote from: bobspapa on April 24, 2013, 11:18:33 PM
Carlos..... your wife is banned from my forum.

She can however, redeem herself by sending me booby pics.

Would you settle for pics of my boobs?
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: Grampa on April 25, 2013, 09:52:21 PM
yes...please include some side boobage shots too
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: ducatiz on April 25, 2013, 10:47:54 PM
Quote from: bobspapa on April 25, 2013, 09:52:21 PM
yes...please include some side boobage shots too

closeups of the hairy aureolas
Title: Re: So my wife got banned from a forum...
Post by: ungeheuer on April 25, 2013, 11:42:33 PM
Quote from: ducatiz on April 25, 2013, 10:47:54 PM
closeups of the hairy aureolas
eeeeeeeuw  [puke]