So the GF wants to move in....

[Grampa]

nothing good can come from this



says the guy who is on marriage #2

and who has lived with 4 g/fs

[TiAvenger]

nothing good can come from this



says the guy who is on marriage #2

and who has lived with 4 g/fs

Yeah just the other day, he was telling me the second marriage is the worst...... you escape the first one and bam... suckered right back into domestic slavery......



/runs and hides from BP and LM

[MrFryMoto]

a bit more backstory:

i really don't mind living in the house that i do
i'm actually very comfortable there and the roommates aren't that bad - they just don't keep care of my stuff

she on the other hand has horrid roommates and she will not sign another lease once this one is up.
the idea of us moving in together came up a while ago - and is developing into, we need to really look into this.

my goal is to find a place with a garage - she can decorate / do whatever with the house - but the outside and garage is mine.

i'm really pushing for living local - but it would be easier and way cheaper to live in Paso Robles (it sucks)

[eltristo]

I moved to a cheaper place in a sucky area.  It sucks, as you might expect.  I would say try as hard as you can to stay in the area you love.  It's worth it.

[Grampa]

a bit more backstory:

i really don't mind living in the house that i do
i'm actually very comfortable there and the roommates aren't that bad - they just don't keep care of my stuff

she on the other hand has horrid roommates and she will not sign another lease once this one is up.
the idea of us moving in together came up a while ago - and is developing into, we need to really look into this.

my goal is to find a place with a garage - she can decorate / do whatever with the house - but the outside and garage is mine.

i'm really pushing for living local - but it would be easier and way cheaper to live in Paso Robles (it sucks)

the only way to make it work out...is for  the rules and expectations to be very clear. who pays for what and how much. nothing is to be assumed. and.... both of you need to have a backup plan in place should things go bad. (nothing like feeling stuck)

[Grampa]

Yeah just the other day, he was telling me the second marriage is the worst...... you escape the first one and bam... suckered right back into domestic slavery......



/runs and hides from BP and LM

she gonna keeeeel you

[Fox]

a bit more backstory:

i really don't mind living in the house that i do
i'm actually very comfortable there and the roommates aren't that bad - they just don't keep care of my stuff

she on the other hand has horrid roommates and she will not sign another lease once this one is up.
the idea of us moving in together came up a while ago - and is developing into, we need to really look into this.

my goal is to find a place with a garage - she can decorate / do whatever with the house - but the outside and garage is mine.

i'm really pushing for living local - but it would be easier and way cheaper to live in Paso Robles (it sucks)

We are trying to help you, but you seem to ignore the most important point. DO NOT MOVE IN WIHT YOUR GF! You will have the rest of your life to deal with the consequences of marriage. Why start it early than you have to. It's like graduating from college a year and a half early just cause you can. Big mistake.

[jdubbs32584]

*kicks Avenger in the shin*

[Gator]

Some girls have no clue about bathroom boundaries once they live with you. You'll be in the shower, whizzing, taking a crap, and she'll just wander in and do whatever she needs to do, possibly while wanting to talk.

I agree with everything else somebastid said but. I dont dont agree with or approve of  taking a crap while your in the shower...
A whiz well we've all done that, but trying to knock a turd down the drain would just be over the top...

Here are some advantages:

Someone to do your laundry for you
Someone to cook you good food and bring it to you while you're watching the races on tv
Someone to clean
Beer fetcher
Someone to do naughty things with ALL THE TIME

These will last for the first month TOPS.


My girlfriend just moved into my place like a ninja.  I woke up one day and there was food where my beer goes, lotions and potions in the bathroom and old lady doilies  over the bathroom window, now I can't look out the window when I'm poopin'

[Grampa]

just say no to the jar of shells on the back of the toilet

[eltristo]

just say no to the jar of shells on the back of the toilet

+ohsomany

[jdubbs32584]

These will last for the first month TOPS.


My girlfriend just moved into my place like a ninja.  I woke up one day and there was food where my beer goes, lotions and potions in the bathroom and old lady doilies  over the bathroom window, now I can't look out the window when I'm poopin'

Then you're dating the wrong girl.

I'm so done with this thread. Fry, do what your gut tells you too. Everybody else seems to think that all women are completely incapable of being around without you being miserable. Its not true.

[Gator]

just say no to the jar of shells on the back of the toilet

We have those in the kitchen,
What do they do?

[Grampa]

Then you're dating the wrong girl.

I'm so done with this thread. Fry, do what your gut tells you too. Everybody else seems to think that all women are completely incapable of being around without you being miserable. Its not true.

where's my sammich woman?

[Grampa]

We have those in the kitchen,
What do they do?

it's a future yardsale nickle