Count Desmo's Last Ride

[Count Desmo]

Today was probably my last ride.

I once promised my wife that I would get out of motorcycling when our daughters were older.  I didn't plan on doing it this soon, but it's time.

Tonight my wife asked me to give it up.  I don't expect everyone to understand, but those who are married with kids may be more likely to.  No matter how much it pains me to quit riding, it is my duty as a husband and father to do what is in the best interest of my family.

I will always cherish the good friends (and unique characters) I have met through this forum, and from riding in general.  I will keep all of my pictures, and remember the great rides and adventures with fondness.  Motorcyclists are absolutely the best group of people on the planet.

Even though I will no longer be riding, all of my friends here will always be welcome in my home when they are in the area.

I will remain active for the next few weeks while I sell all of my bikes and gear, and say goodbye to friends.  After that, I probably won't spend much time here.  It will be too difficult to be involved in the culture when I can't participate.

Thanks go out to everyone here.  You have all given me a great deal over the last few years, and for that I can never repay you.

Ride well my friends.

Count Desmo (Jeremy)

[Popeye the Sailor]

Only you know what's important to you.


Good on you for doing what's right by those who clearly are the important stuff.


Try to stop in every now and again though. 

[CairnsDuc]

And I guarantee that within 12 months you'll regret it and resent your wife for making you do it, I know that sounds harsh, And I mean no disrespect to you or your wife, but I have seen it to many times where a Husband
(or Wife) is Asked to give something up for the sake of the kids and the Marriage, and it seems to cause more heartache and pain down the track.

You can't find a happy medium, rather than give up something you enjoy?

Just my 0.02 and feel free to tell me to piss off, And I really hope I'm wrong.

But if you do give it up, Your a stronger man than I.

[Count Desmo]

And I guarantee that within 12 months you'll regret it and resent your wife for making you do it

You're wrong, friend.  She isn't making me do it.  She asked me to follow through on a promise I made years ago.  It means a lot to her.  There is absolutely nothing I won't do for my wife and kids.  It's a bit sooner than I would like, but I can handle that.

[red baron]

I gave up riding too for a spell. Really at that time in my life it was not a big deal.

[ROBsS4R]

Do what you need to do mate.

I may makes the same decision down the road.

Be sure to check in every once in a while to say hi or just stick around of course 

[Dareduc]

as a father and husband... i understand. I have battled with the option myself but have always arrived at the same conclusion... to stay ridding... for my own philosophical reasons. but my philosophy is not others.

My wife never asked me to give it up... she just made me take out a 2 million dollar life insurance policy. I am waiting for the day i go out and my brakes are out... I will picture her at home with a glass of wine and a pair of scissors. Just kidding... my wife would not know what wire to cut.

but i am sure the road will miss you... but not as much as your family would if something were to happen. god speed.

[CairnsDuc]

Well I respect that, I don't agree with it, But I can respect your decision.

Like I said your bigger man than I 

But please tell me you'll still hang around the board and contribute.

[somegirl]

Best of luck, hope we still see you around from time to time.

[DucMouse the Mighty]

OMG 

it has been great fun riding with u babe... we will certainly miss u

and im sure a group of us will be up there to harrass ya, and i would u would do the same



maybe we can talk about of ur gear

[Stangman]

Being a father and a husband myself I understand what you are doing 100%

You've got my respect for being one of the few that has their priorities straight.

[Punkass2112]

I'm sure I'm just too young to understand, but ti's not like you're playing russian roulette with a full clip.... Sure, riding can be dangerous, but you can get hurt doing ANYTHING. Seems like the chances of getting really really hurt are alot lower than many people think.

If it's important to you and your family, then it's the right thing to do, but I still don't get it.

[Kawboy]

See what happens when you make promises.  They come back to bite you in the arse.  Repeat after me, "Never make promises".  
Seriously  . . .  Sad to see you go.  We made only one ride together (first half of Az and second half of Utah is all one ride to me) but it was a blast.  You'll know where to find us if you get a reprieve.  

PS  You know, if you don't ride you'll age faster.  I'm not trying to influence you or any thing like that, but   .   .   .    

Good luck and add your 2 cents to the forum every now and then.

[Big Troubled Bear]

I respect you man, better person than I

[55Spy]

start riding offroad and involve the whole family!