Quote from: 13 on October 09, 2008, 01:16:22 PM
We have those in the kitchen,
What do they do?

Dude, a toilet in the kitchen?

Quote from: ducpainter on October 09, 2008, 02:13:19 PM
That too...

'cept I was serious.

There are no guarantees in life. Except death.

People grow...sometimes apart... but normally around their waist and ass

and change...sometimes for the worse. which is the opposite of better

The only way they'll find out is to do it... perferably behind closed doors and quietly

talk is cheap... till you have to back it up, then it gets really, really, expensive

and rarely accomplishes anything.  Much like Trevor

Plans never...ever...ever work out. Even when designed by engineers

AHEM 

Quote from: ducpainter on October 09, 2008, 02:13:19 PM
Plans never...ever...ever work out.

where was this advice 8 years ago? 

the one GF I moved in w/... well... obviously we broke up, but it was unrelated to living together for 2 years.

it's not all bad, but yeah, you won't know until you do it.

Just do it.  Either it works or it doesn't.  You're going to have to figure it out sooner or later anyhow.

Quote from: darylbowden on October 09, 2008, 02:45:23 PM
Just do it.  Either it works or it doesn't.  You're going to have to figure it out sooner or later anyhow.

They won't listen to you either.

Mistake #1 would be moving away from San Luis Obispo. Been there. Done that. Now look at me, I live in Merced and I want to die.
Mistake #2 is when you move in with her and realize that girls have to poop too. All this time I thought it was a myth. It happens my friend. Be prepared.




If the winds die down by tomorrow, you may see my bike at Gus's. Please come take my keys away from me.              just kidding

Quote from: TiAvenger on October 09, 2008, 01:37:25 PM

Fixed... yet again....

But yeah JB, we are just poking fun cause we know them.

They will be fine 

You shush! No pokin fun! 

the choice's are all yours fry, your heart knows what to do... and as always, good luck to you

Quote from: ducpainter on October 09, 2008, 03:08:04 PM
They won't listen to you either.

Haha, I didn't bother reading the rest of the thread until I saw your reply. 

What is it they say about great minds?  You think that applies to ours as well?

Even taking into account that this thread is full of (hopefully) 90 percent joking, it still sounds like there are a ton of immature guys out there.

Also sounds like almost every relationship on the DMF has zero communication.


Hung out in Europe for one year with G in a tent so small only one of us could sit up at a time.

lived in several crap apartments together.

bought a 35 thousand dollar home together to practice renovations in a crap part of the city as our first house.

what's so hard again?

if she's your best friend and you talk about everything each day then fine...you'll grow and change together...(or not).

If she's not your best friend why are you sleeping with her and considering living together?  As a tide-me-over?

Quote from: darylbowden on October 09, 2008, 04:29:18 PM
Haha, I didn't bother reading the rest of the thread until I saw your reply. 

What is it they say about great minds?  You think that applies to ours as well?

I had a mind....

where'd I leave it this time?

Wow....you let a woman know where you live? I suppose you gave her your real name too?

In reality, I would only suggest looking for a place to move into together. If she moves into your place it'll become hers (possible conflict issues).

as long as the join with the intersection and the union is normalized every thing should be ok. As long as there is no corruption.

Quote from: Statler on October 09, 2008, 04:45:51 PM
Even taking into account that this thread is full of (hopefully) 90 percent joking, it still sounds like there are a ton of immature guys out there.

Also sounds like almost every relationship on the DMF has zero communication.


Hung out in Europe for one year with G in a tent so small only one of us could sit up at a time.

lived in several crap apartments together.

bought a 35 thousand dollar home together to practice renovations in a crap part of the city as our first house.

what's so hard again?

if she's your best friend and you talk about everything each day then fine...you'll grow and change together...(or not).

If she's not your best friend why are you sleeping with her and considering living together?  As a tide-me-over?

I'm 100% with you Chris. 

It may sounds cheesy, but my gf (of ~ 3 yrs now) is honestly my best friend and I am hers.  We communicate extremely well, have similar sense of humor and enjoy each other's company immensely, but still know when to give the other some space.  At the end of the day, even if we have nothing else, we have everything we need.

hm...........give thoughtful advice, or tongue in cheek?

whatever you do, rent a place that you can afford solo. have only one of you on the lease. that way, if it doesnt work, you are not in a bind with the rental arrangement.

agree in advance about important issues such as "toilet seat up or down"

good luck