Oil change:
http://ducatimonsterforum.org/index.php?topic=410.0
- video even!

A basic rear stand is what you need first, and what you'll use most. There's also front stands which are needed for removing the front wheel and/or front suspension. But for the bulk of stuff a rear stand is all you'll need. Besides giving some more clearance for things like an oil drain pan. It also helps to stabilize the bike.

There's some cheaper option out there - but Pit Bull stands are top of the line
http://www.pit-bull.com/Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=PBMSA&Product_Code=F0002-000&Category_Code=rear_stands
- You'll see that it has L shaped supports to cup the swing arm.

OR there's this one which has the ability to support under the swingarm or with bobbins (should you install some)
http://www.pit-bull.com/Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=PBMSA&Product_Code=F0028-000&Category_Code=rear_stands

As mentioned bobbins can make thigns a little easier when getting a bike on a stand alone, and grip better - but your bike doesn't have them from the factory. They are not hard to install, but you do need to drill into the swing arm, then tap the holes for threads. I'm guessing you don't have the correct tools for the job - at least a tap set. But any shop worth half a shit could do it in about 30 min.

As freeclimb mentioned - what ever stand you get you might want a buddy around the first few times you put the bike on and off the stand. It's not hard, but it can be akward and if you're not comfortable holding the bike stable with one hand while levering the stand with the other.

Thnx guys for all the info and help! Really appreciate it. I am goin to ask around to see how much they will charge to drill the holes for the stand, what is a good price for that? Or should i just get the normal one? Also since i am goin to buy the pitbull stand should i include the extra options? Since the weather is ugly atm in los angeles i will have to wait a week or 2 so i can actually get to work on my bike. Thnx guys if you lived close by i would invite you to a round of beers on me!

I'd expect 30 min to do the job. You'd have to talk to a shop to get a price, all shops will be different.

I've gotten by with a stand that doesn't do bobbins so far. But if you want to be far sighted, I'd say get a model that can do both. It's not that much more, and it gives you options. Also if you ever would want to sell it, having the option would be a selling point.

um....i have just the regular stand for about 12 years now on my M900...just sayin they work fine. Just make sure the tabs are under the swingarm good and solid

Hey Mr. It... Welcome!

Where in LA are you? 

A lot of guys just do their own thing as far as riding and maintenance goes.  If ya need any help with anything, I'm (relatively) close by.

As far as the stand goes, on my Monster I used just a basic swingarm stand. (the swingarm just rests on the stand)  My current bike came with swingarm sliders, so now I have a stand that has both options...

Check out the SoCal board.  I post up rides all the time.  Or just send a pm. 

We'll take care of ya! 

Alright since today is my day off i will go check some shops out and see what i come across. Bacon i live near Gardena so i would say im located towards the southbay area.  Thnx for offering your helping hand to a complete stranger i will check out the SoCal board and pm you aswell. If i ever do need help i will let you know which im sure i will lol but thnx really for your help guys! 

Anytime...

Speeddog runs Valley Ducati Service in Reseda.  He's a moderator and a board sponsor... All around good guy, but very busy. A testament to his good work, I'd say.   

Also, in Santa Monica/Venice area there's Moto Club on Lincoln.  Stefan is a good tech down there.

Out in Signal Hill there's Motoservizio, but you need to schedule way ahead of time due to demand.  I here good things about them there.

Well i did not go to any shop, my mom got sick so i took her to the hospital, but i talked to her a minutes ago and she is back to her old self   
So i will have to wait till next tuesday to go to shops. Bacon do you know how to modify parts? If so maybe you can teach me!

pm me...

Did you get the PM?

Yep, just been super busy the last coupla days. 

Sorry.

I'll catch ya tomorrow...   

No problem!