isn't this what pre-nups are for?

Quote from: KnightofNi on September 21, 2009, 09:32:16 AM
isn't this what pre-nups are for?

i might live in a dream world... but if you need a pre-nup... i don't think you trust eachother enough to get married in the first place.

Quote from: corey on September 21, 2009, 10:38:44 AM
i might live in a dream world... but if you need a pre-nup... i don't think you trust eachother enough to get married in the first place.

What he said!

Quote from: corey on September 21, 2009, 10:38:44 AM
i might live in a dream world... but if you need a pre-nup... i don't think you trust eachother enough to get married in the first place.

i agree with you, but if it really isn't gold digging then there shouldn't be too much of a problem.

A good friend of mine were thinking the same thoughts when his son got married to a woman we know.
There was nothing we could say that would make any difference.
We came up with the "train wreck" analogy.

It's like watching a train wreck, you see it coming and there is nothing you can
do to stop it.

Quote from: KnightofNi on September 21, 2009, 09:32:16 AM
isn't this what pre-nups are for?

+1

that's a great idea

Quote from: KnightofNi on September 21, 2009, 09:32:16 AM
isn't this what pre-nups are for?

Quote from: KnightofNi on September 21, 2009, 11:15:05 AM
i agree with you, but if it really isn't gold digging then there shouldn't be too much of a problem.

That pretty much sums it up. 

a pre-nup does not stop him or her from draining his savings... getting second mortgages...cashing in stocks and bonds.

he's so head over heals in love right now... he's not seeing all the red flags those of us on the outside are seeing.

Hide the viagra, then have it nullified as it was never consummated.